Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Toys Toys Toys


There was a time when I thought that kids were just fine playing with pots and pans and yogurt containers. That was before I became a mom, of course, and before I started buying every toy that caught my (then) sleep-deprived attention -- sort of a way of "keeping up with the (playdate) Joneses." Soon enough, I found myself living in an apartment overrun with admittedly useless toys, barely able to walk 2 feet before tripping over a yapping mechanical dog or a rolling plastic pig. AAAHHH!!! How to tame this chaos?

And, just in time, I remembered that my now friend, Dr. Teresa Signorelli, a child development specialist, had written a very very useful article on the very same subject. I found it so useful and so inspiring that I actually got rid of a lot of C's toys and went out and bought her a whole new batch of age-appropriate toys. I organized her play space, streamlining it, and compartmentalizing it (sort of) according to the different areas Teresa outlines in her article. Now we have a happier kid (and even happier parents)! A highly recommended read. Here are the links to the article and to her website:
Here's my last thought: since you're going to buy toys for your kid anyway (unless you've lucked into a useful hand-me-down situation), why not be strategic about it, right?


Friday, April 22, 2011

Heimlich Clear Cream Recall

So a couple of weeks ago, I blogged about the most amazing, miraculous, "all natural" cream that got rid of C's eczema in a matter of days. Given that I have used homeopathic remedies before, with much success, for some of C's other typical baby/toddler ailments, I had no problem trusting Heimlich Clear Cream's claim to being "all natural". Now, thanks to an alert reader (thank you, anonymous commenter!), I've found out that I've been duped. Apparently, the distributor has recalled the product because "FDA analysis revealed the presence of up to 0.037% Betamethasone Valerate, a corticosteroid". Argh! It's not so much the presence of the steroid in the cream that pisses me off so much (as .037% is still a much smaller concentration than is found in other steroid creams) but that the company felt the need to deceive an already vulnerable consumer base. So while in practice, I wouldn't mind using the cream again (especially since I didn't have to use much of it), I won't, out of principle. Companies like Heimlich give truly effective holistic products a bad rap, and I have to wonder what else the company is lying about. Perhaps they'll offer some sort of satisfactory explanation, but, in the meantime, if C's eczema rears its ugly head again, I'll give the California Baby Calendula Cream a try. It's cheaper anyway.

Sunday, April 17, 2011

The (P)Leisure of Sleep


C was a dream sleeper for most of her young life until a traumatic trip to the ER/Pediatric ICU when she was 14 months old. Long story short, she was fine, but her awesome sleep habits suffered a major blow. So it was back to co-sleeping until just a couple of weeks ago, with the hubby kicked to the curb (or, rather, the futon), as a queen-sized bed seemed too small for the three of us. But even with just C and me in bed, she was getting up at least 3-4 times a night. It made sense, I guess: if I were tossing and turning or making noises while she was in light sleep, I'd wake her up. So then we tried the "transfer" technique, which involved putting her to sleep next to me and then transferring her to a crib in our room. Didn't work so much. She'd get up hysterical, unable to be calmed down unless I played for her her favorite videos.

Finally, in desperation, I did what I should have done a while ago: ordered the dreaded Ferber book (Solve Your Child's Sleep Problems, by Dr. Richard Ferber, M.D.). Had heard about this crying-it-out method and how magical it is, but for the longest time resisted (due to cowardice on my part, no doubt). But now desperate -- both for C and me, since neither of us was getting good sleep -- I decided that the least I could do was read the book, even if I chose later not to implement. Lo and behold, his words made so much sense.

For C at least, it was all about sleep associations. If C fell asleep next to me and then woke up in the middle of the night and I wasn't there, it's only natural that she wouldn't be able to fall asleep again. He uses the example of a pillow. If we're used to falling asleep with a pillow under our heads and then wake up in the middle of the night without it, we'd need the pillow back under our heads to fall asleep again. Cue analogy to pacifier, boob, bottle, rocking chair, etc. So the trick was to get C to fall asleep on her own in her own crib.

Given that C is a pretty verbal toddler, able to understand in her rudimentary way the concept of give-and-take, I decided to negotiate with her. After setting up her crib to be something fun and pleasant (stuffed animals, comfy blankets, and placing her in the crib with a bunch of stickers, which she happily played with for over an hour), I promised her a balloon and more stickers the next morning if she were to sleep in her crib. Amazingly, she understood, and, as if by magic, she slept through the entire night, waking up only once for some water. And so the pattern continues. After a week or so, we didn't really have to promise her goodies any more. She got it. Her crib was her sleeping place, and she had become accustomed to it. Her sleeping through the night has made a world of difference to C, me, and the hubby (especially the hubby).

Fortunately, I never had to use the cry-it-out method that Ferber advocates, since moving C to her own crib sufficed. But now that I know how important quality sleep is for C, I don't think I'd hesitate to try the Ferber method (despite my usual spinelessness when it comes to C's crying). And, honestly, I think the cry-it-out method sounds a lot more harsh than it actually is, as Ferber never actually suggests that a parent abandon the kid to his crying (and the revised edition even allows for co-sleeping!). In fact, the method provides a wonderfully specific schedule of when and how often to check in on the crying child, which is a far cry from leaving him to cry for hours.

Granted, the method isn't right for everyone, and I would never suggest that it is. (And my pediatrician made it clear to me that the method is not for babies under 4 months old.) You may have philosophical or practical reasons for not wanting to try it, which I totally understand, but if you truly believe that your child is not getting the quality sleep he or she deserves and the only reason you're not trying the method is because you're scared to hear your kid cry (which was definitely the case with me), I'd highly recommend that you at least flip through the Ferber book. Here's the link:


In the meantime, bonne nuit!

Friday, April 8, 2011

"I'm Fat!"

A couple of weeks ago, my then 20-month old daughter looked at my admittedly large and softening belly one evening and said two words that almost stopped my heart: "Umma fat." (For those of you who don't speak Korean, "Umma" is Korean for "mommy"). The comment, coming from a 20-month old, was both hysterical and heartbreaking. Hysterical, because what 20-month old walks around calling people "fat"? Heartbreaking, because I've always been paranoid about conveying my body image issues to C and here she was, repeating words back to me that she had most likely heard from me (as much as I would have loved to blame anyone else: the daycare provider, her babysitter, another mommy...but, alas, no).

Having grown up a "larger" girl (by Asian standards, a "hippo", apparently, which is what I was often called by someone who shall remain unnamed), I've spent most of my life dealing with a twisted relationship with food -- not to mention my body. And I remember sitting around one day with a bunch of women who were all griping about their bodies, getting more and more infuriated that we were falling prey to such a stereotype and such pressure. (Have you ever noticed how when women get together, one or more of them inevitably resorts to talking about her body or her diet? I plead guilty to being that woman on more than one occasion!) I remember wondering if men sat around griping about their bodies the way we were doing at that moment, and, if not, why we women were. At that point, I made a conscious decision never ever to talk about my body again -- at least in a derogatory manner.

Obviously, I've let that resolution slide by the wayside, but now that I have a daughter, I'd like to renew that resolution, especially in light of an article that my friend recently posted on her Facebook wall (thanks, Jen!): http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/42380003/ns/today-today_health/. I of course don't want to sound preachy, but if I can encourage at least one mother to think twice before talking about her body in a negative way in front of her daughter, then this post has done its job.




Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Et tu, M&Ms?


Being preggo, I downed nearly an entire jumbo-sized bag of peanut M&Ms…after which I read this post on huffingtonpost (my source for all things raging liberal and WTH?):

Do food dyes cause ADHD and cancers? I’ve been following the debate, but the bottom line is, who knows? Maybe it’s all the sugar in our kids’ diets? What I do know is that I certainly don’t trust the FDA to look after my or C’s interests. (How is it that the Europeans have gotten us beat on another safety issue yet again?) So I’m going to apply Laurie David’s advice, originally intended for the FDA, and “assum[e] chemicals are dangerous until proven safe”, which is not to say that C won’t be able to enjoy the occasional sprinkle-covered donut. Let’s just say that we’re going to be conscientious consumers of processed products (at least when C starts to eat voluntarily).

Babies in Cabs


Okay, New Yorkers. One thing I’ve seen now a couple of times that just makes me sick to my stomach is a parent without a car seat getting into a cab with a baby strapped onto him/her via Ergo or Baby Bjorn. I know, I get it. It’s a pain in the a** to lug around a car seat, and very often, you don’t plan the cab trip in advance. Maybe the buses aren’t running that day, or the subway station is closed for maintenance or whatever, and so you’re stuck. But before you get into a cab with your baby without a car seat, take a look at the video in this link. If that doesn’t make you think twice about getting into a cab, I honestly don’t know what will.

Update on the Heimlich Clear Cream

So after applying the cream on C’s legs and ear for around a week, all of here eczema patches are gone. Yippee!!! If they dare to resurface, I know now that I have an incredibly effective weapon at my disposal.

Cell Phone Pix of the Kids

So color me paranoid, perhaps, but due to a recent brush with what I thought was a potential stalker (and actually may be, though I haven’t heard from him in a while), I feel somewhat justified. I’ve gone through all of my Facebook privacy settings and set them to “Friends Only”, I’ve de-friended people I don’t know, I’ve removed as much information from the internet as I can (though not wholly successfully), etc. So imagine my horror when I found out that I’ve been broadcasting my exact location whenever I’ve taken a photo of my adorable daughter with my blackberry. Thankfully, I’ve only posted photos of C on Facebook, and a google search reveals no photos of her. Anyway, if that scares the bejebus out of you, check out this news clip:

And since this particular news clip doesn’t tell you how to remedy the situation, check out this informational website, which will give you information on how to disable geo-tagging on your smartphone.

In the meantime, cheese! :)

Vaccines

I normally try to stay out of the vaccine fray, since I respect both sides of the debate. I will leave it to the experts to debate the whole vaccine/autism connection, since a) I’m no expert, and 2) I’m pretty much an agnostic when it comes to that particular issue. But as someone who subscribes to a more holistic approach to health, I have been increasingly disturbed by the sheer number of vaccines now given to kids. (Hep-B at birth? What? We respectfully declined that one. And now they’re trying to mandate vaccines for HPV?) Again, I’m not anti-vaccine. Just a bit cautious.

So as I was doing my research on vaccinations, I came across “The Vaccine Book”, by Dr. Sears, which I thought was incredibly well-balanced and easy-to-read, weighing the pros and cons of each kind of vaccine. What’s more, for those parents who are uncomfortable with the idea of such an intense vaccination schedule, he provides an alternative vaccination schedule, which C is following (with some adjustments). So, again, ultimately, C will get all of her required vaccinations, but the shots will be more spread out. Our pediatrician was happy to comply, and I can breathe a bit easier.

So to reiterate, I am not anti-vaccination, so no need to write angry notes to me about how irresponsible I am. And I also know that there are millions of kids out there who are fine on the standard vaccination schedule, so no replies to that effect necessary. :) Ultimately, this post is from one slightly more paranoid mom to another.

Anyway, here’s the link to the book:

Eczema


So I always felt badly for kids I saw with eczema. Looked painful and unpleasant, and I always thanked God that C never had to deal with it. Little did I know. Sure enough, around two months ago, I noticed that there was a rough dry patch behind her knees. It soon spread and started turning red and raw. Then scabby. I also noticed that where the earlobe met her jawline, she had what looked like a scabby crack. Argh. The pediatrician confirmed it: eczema. Argh. No doubt caused in part by her shabby diet (more on that in another post).

The ped recommended the usual. Hydrocortisone, a steroid. But then she stopped herself because she knew me better. Haha. What I didn’t tell her was that I was already on it. I had ordered Heimlich Clear Cream, which had gotten AMAZING reviews, from Amazon and was waiting for it in the mail. In the meantime, when we got home, I cracked open a homemade calendula salve I had bought a couple of years ago from a tiny homeopathic store in Switzerland. It had been touted as a cure-all for skin ailments, and I had just found it again going through my medicine cabinet. Because I knew I had to wait a couple of days for the Heimlich Clear Cream, I thought, what the heck? Might as well give this calendula salve a try. Astoundingly, in a 48-hour period, C’s eczema had cleared up considerably. But then I received the Heimlich Clear Cream, which I was determined to use since I had just spent $30 on it. And even more astoundingly, over a weekend, C’s eczema had cleared up completely. The only thing left is some slight discoloration behind the knees, no doubt discoloration from the scabbing.

Curious, I looked at the ingredients. You guessed it: calendula. Plus arnica, a powerful natural anti-inflammatory. Coincidence?

I laugh now when I read reviews about Heimlich Clear Cream on Amazon. There is so much skepticism out there, evidenced by comments like, “This cream must contain steroids…Medically speaking, the results cannot be explained by the company’s listed ingredients.” That kind of comment obviously comes from a reviewer so biased by Western medicine that s/he is incapable of entertaining the possibility that homeopathic remedies may be just as effective as Western medicine sometimes.

Anyway, if $30 is too steep a price for you, California Baby makes its own calendula cream, which is apparently pretty effective as well. Less than half of what Heimlich costs, but as effective? Would love to hear from someone who’s used it.

In the meantime, C and I are happy campers!!!!

Car Seat Follow-Up

So The NY Times has entered the fray.

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/03/22/health/policy/22carseat.html

My only issue with this is that I think that 2 is still too young…Heck, maybe we should all be facing backwards (driver excepted)!

(I’ve cut and pasted the article here.)

Rear-Facing Car Seats Advised at Least to Age of 2

Toddlers are usually switched from rear-facing to forward-facing car seats right after their first birthday — an event many parents may celebrate as a kind of milestone. But in a new policy statement, the nation’s leading pediatricians’ group says that is a year too soon.

The advice from the American Academy of Pediatrics, issued Monday, is based primarily on a 2007 University of Virginia study finding that children under 2 are 75 percent less likely to suffer severe or fatal injuries in a crash if they are facing the rear.

“A baby’s head is relatively large in proportion to the rest of his body, and the bones of his neck are structurally immature,” said the statement’s lead author, Dr. Dennis R. Durbin, scientific co-director of the Center for Injury Research and Prevention at the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia. “If he’s rear-facing, his entire body is better supported by the shell of the car seat. When he’s forward-facing, his shoulders and trunk may be well restrained, but in a violent crash, his head and neck can fly forward.”

The new policy statement also advises that older children should ride in a belt-positioning booster seat until they are 4 feet 9 inches tall, and 8 to 12 years old. A booster seat allows the vehicle’s lap and shoulder seat belt to fit properly, meaning the lap portion of the belt fits low across the hips and pelvis, and the shoulder portion fits across the middle of the shoulder and chest.

“Our recommendations are meant to help parents move away from gospel-held notions that are based on a child’s age,” Dr. Durbin said. “We want them to recognize that with each transition they make, from rear-facing to forward-facing, to booster seats, there is a decline in the safety of their child. That’s why we are urging parents to delay these transitions for as long as possible.”

Safety advocates applaud the new policy, but say the transition from rear- to forward-facing is usually the one that parents are least willing to delay.

“People cheer when they turn their kid around at one year, but hopefully some day they’ll cheer at how long they were able to keep their child rear-facing,” said Debbi Baer, a labor and delivery nurse in Baltimore who has been a car safety advocate for children for more than 30 years.

The academy’s previous policy, from 2002, said it was safest for infants and toddlers to ride facing the rear, and cited 12 months and 20 pounds as the minimum requirements for turning the car seat forward. But Ms. Baer, a certified child passenger safety technician, said parents tended to take that as a hard and fast rule.

“A lot of parents consider turning the car seat around as another developmental milestone that shows how brilliant and advanced their child is,” she said, “and they don’t realize that it’s making their child less safe.”

Ms. Baer says the evidence from other countries is compelling: Sweden, for instance, where children face the rear until age 4, has the world’s lowest highway fatality rate for children under 6.

Seven years ago, Ed Weissberg and his wife, Edda, of Baltimore, took Ms. Baer’s advice, and say it saved their daughter Renana’s life.

The couple and their three children were traveling north on Interstate 95 when they were broadsided by a car that had had a blowout. Their minivan flipped into the air, sailed over three lanes of traffic and landed on the shoulder, upside down.

“The E.M.T.’s told me later that as soon as they saw our car, they were ready to take out our bodies,” said Mr. Weissberg, who now lives in Israel with his family. Instead, they found the entire family nearly unscathed, with all three children suspended upside down, still securely strapped in their car seats.

“People thought we were crazy for keeping our 2-year-old rear-facing, but if she had been facing forward, she wouldn’t be alive today,” he said.

Dr. Alisa Baer, a pediatrician at Morgan Stanley Children’s Hospital in New York (and Debbi Baer’s daughter), said Renana Weissberg’s case was far from unique.

“It’s a horrible term,” she said, “but E.M.T.’s call the rear-facing seat ‘the orphan seat’ because in a bad car accident, that child is often the only one who survives.”

Until recently, most car seats that could be turned to face the rear did not accommodate children weighing more than 20 pounds. Today, however, the limits are closer to 30 to 35 pounds, and a few go to 45 pounds.

Dr. Baer said she felt so strongly that if a parent wants to install a forward-facing seat for a child younger than 2, “I tell them, ‘If you really want to make a stupid decision for your child, you can do it, but I’m not going to help you.’ ”

She noted that parents often told her that their 2-year-olds would be uncomfortable with their legs squashed against the back of the seat, and that they might be more likely to break their legs in a crash. Neither is true, she said.

“I always reassure parents that just because it looks uncomfortable to you doesn’t mean that it is for a child,” said Dr. Baer.

Rear- or Forward-Facing Car Seat?

As an urban mommy, I don’t often have to transport my kid in a car — mercifully. And as an urban kid, C just barely tolerates sitting in a car seat. (Wonder if suburban kids feel differently, since they’re more habituated?). Up until now, C has been rear-facing, but given how boring it must be for C to sit facing the back of the car for long stretches of time, I had often wondered when I could turn her around to face the front.

I know the recommendation in the United States is that the kid should remain rear-facing until at least one year old and (not “or”) 20 pounds. But there’s a lot of evidence out there that kids should stay rear-facing for as long as possible — even until 3 or 4. What???

Anyway, articles like these scared the bejebus out of me, and I’m keeping C rear-facing until she’s 18.

Stroller Madness


With this post, I’m hoping to spare some city parents out there from the same stroller purchase mistakes that I made. Maybe not so applicable to suburbanites…

We started out so promisingly. When C was an infant, we used the Graco SnugRide 32 Infant Car Seat, which doubles as a stroller if you buy the corresponding stroller frame. Efficient! Besides, I never understood the idea of buying another fancy stroller to push around your infant since I spent most of my time walking around with C strapped on to me Ergo-style. We loved our Graco SnugRide.

When C was around 4 months old, we graduated to the Rolls Royce of strollers, the EasyWalker. What I failed to realize, since I made the mistake of buying it sight unseen, was that it pretty much took up the entire square footage of our NY apartment (or at least the hallway: see pic above), and it was around as heavy as an actual Rolls Royce. So while C may have loved it, the hubby and I, not so much. (I’m also looking at you, Bugaboo and UPPAbaby Vista.)

So then we moved on to an umbrella stroller, the Maclaren Volo. 8.5 pounds!!! A dream! What I failed to realize was that it would have been nice to have gotten a stroller with a reclining seat, as C oftentimes fell asleep in her stroller, and nothing’s more heartbreaking than seeing a kid’s head lolligagging to one side as s/he sleeps.

By now, the hubby was somewhat frustrated with all of my stroller acquisitions, and so he limited me to a budget of around $150 for the next stroller. So between the Maclaren Triumph and the UPPAbaby G-luxe, I opted for the latter. The seat reclined back farther, the sun canopy was more expansive, and an attached cup holder for my morning joe sealed the deal. The only problem now is that the straps seem somewhat short with all of C’s winter gear, which doesn’t bode well for next winter. Sigh.

If I had to do it all over again, I would have just opted for the City Mini (not the Elite version!) and have called it a day. It seems like the perfect hybrid of luxury stroller and umbrella stroller. But it’s heavy (26 pounds???), and if weight is an issue, perhaps the Maclaren Quest, which comes in at 12.2 pounds.

Man, I cannot wait until it doesn’t take C half an hour to walk half a block…

Getting Back in Shape :(

I’m not normally a Gwyneth-hater (and, gasp!, I think she’s actually quite talented — though she should probably draw the line at acting), but I was somewhat exasperated by her “every woman can make time” comment about working out. She can apparently work out with her “kids crawling all over the place”. That’s a nifty trick, and I wish I could do so as well. But I guess it’s easier when you have a full-time nanny and a chef and a personal trainer and space (space!) and and and…But again, I’m not about Gwyneth-bashing. Of late, I’ve actually started to agree with her.

Here’s the reason:

What a discovery!!! For $18/month, you can practice yoga just as you would in a yoga studio but in the comfort of your own home. You can choose from an infinite number of classes, organized by duration, style, level, instructor, etc. Right after I’ve dropped C off at daycare, or when C goes down for a nap, I just set my mat down, and I’m good to go. The classes are wonderful and as challenging as you want them to be. Highly recommended.

I’m not going to lie and say that I’m in tip-top shape. But that’s not yogaglo’s fault. If I’m not in awesome shape, it’s because of my daily indulgences at the local bakery/pastry shop. And now that I’m pregnant again, all bets are off. (Insert croissant into mouth. Exit.)

Educational Videos?


So Dr. Berman, the author of Superbaby, claims that all videos and TV of any sort are detrimental to kids and their development and recommends that we ban kids from watching them until they’re at least 3 years old. Agreed that plopping your toddler in front of “SpongeBob SquarePants” for hours every day may not be the best idea in the world, but I have to wonder if all videos, in limited doses, are necessarily bad for kids.

The hubby and I terminated our cable subscription, so C can’t watch the latest episode of “American Idol”, but we do have a couple of educational videos that we’ve let C watch since she was an infant, and I have to admit that the results have been impressive. We started off with the “Your Baby Can Read” series (http://www.yourbabycanread.com), and while they were working and C was starting to “read” — or at least recognize the words and what they signified — by 12 months, I found the production quality of the videos to be infuriatingly poor, and the word selections were oftentimes odd. The videos would drive me nuts, so I stopped putting them on for her. Having said that much, the supplementary materials — flash cards and books — are great, so maybe worth the investment anyway.

We were simultaneously letting her watch the Preschool Prep Company series, and the results were astounding. I like how methodical and well-thought out the videos are, and the cartoon graphics are simple, memorable, and adorable. If C knew her colors, shapes, letters, and numbers as a very young toddler, I give Preschool Prep most of the credit. Check out their website here:

I mean, am I creating a future ADHD candidate by letting C watch these videos? Who knows? But I figure that as long as I’m balancing the video-watching with real interactive playtime, it’s a risk worth taking. And besides, the dinner doesn’t cook itself.

Foam Mat Brouhaha


So this one just slayed me. For C’s play area, I had bought those cool interlocking foam mats, and she practically lived on it for the first year of her life. Then comes news from Europe that Belgium and France had banned them because of toxic formamide emissions.

Reluctantly, we threw our mat out and got a cotton rug instead. Sigh. Now comes news that not all is lost! Safbaby has been testing various brands, and a couple of brands are actually formamide-free (including the brand that I just threw out, EduShapes…boo)!

Anyway, now I have to figure out whether the foam bath toys we have are toxic, but in the meantime, I’m not going to give in to paranoia. Time to play!

Baby Bjorn v. Ergo


For any new or soon-to-be moms on the market for carriers, debating between the Bjorn and the Ergo, hands down: Ergo. When I was doing research for carriers, I came across a lot of evidence that the Bjorns — at least the older models — were just bad for babies and their spines. Here’s a pro-Ergo discussion, that references the issue of baby’s health.

The Bjorn is also just terrible for mama’s/papa’s back. The previous models lacked lumbar support for parents, so after a certain weight, it was just murder on parents to lug their kids around in Bjorns. Bjorn has since come out with the Comfort Carrier, but it’s more expensive than the Ergo, so why bother? Having said that much, if you do end up going for the Bjorn Comfort Carrier, just note that one of the features it touts is the ability to wear your kid facing out, a la classic models, which just goes back to the issue of the kid’s health.

Anyway, just my two cents!


Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Alternatives to Conventional Diapers


If you’re reading this post, I’m going to assume that you agree with me that conventional diapers are incredibly toxic (not to mention murder on the environment). Or if you don’t agree with me, the links below explain why I feel that way.

So the question is, what to do? Cloth diapers and gDiapers are a nightmare and too labor-intensive for me (though I know moms who use them successfully). I’ve been using Seventh Generation diapers in the meantime. But I just found this blog entry, so I may be switching back to Nature Babycare.

Granted, they’re more expensive than conventional diapers, but I’d rather not skimp when it comes to C’s health. I’d rather give up a manicure here or there. :)

Saturday, April 2, 2011

Diaper Rashes


Around a year ago, C had a diaper rash that was so bad, our ped recommended Lotrimin. While I was a bit hesitant about applying a chemical cocktail on my baby’s bum, I figured it was a necessary evil. So a week into the “treatment”, I realize that she is not getting any better. And I’m getting more and more panicked about applying this toxic cream on C’s poor, red butt. So in desperation, I took to the internet and realized that I should have tried an alternative method first. The proposed solution: tea tree oil and olive oil.

Literally, within 2-3 days, her diaper rash had completely healed up, and now that I’m using this homemade concoction instead of the usual wipes/diaper cream combo, C HAS NEVER HAD ANOTHER DIAPER RASH.

Here’s my solution:

  1. Buy two 3 oz. spray bottles.
  2. In one bottle, add water with a little bit of apple cider vinegar.
  3. In the other bottle, add olive oil, and add a bit of tea tree oil (around 20 drops, maybe?). The stuff is strong, and I wouldn’t recommend applying it directly on the baby’s bottom. You need a carrier oil. Hence, the olive oil. (Don’t use mineral oil.)
  4. To clean baby’s bottom, spray the vinegar solution around the diaper region and then pat dry with a towel.
  5. Then spray the oil solution and rub around liberally.
  6. That’s it.

Obviously, for poops, I clean off with wipes, first.

Cheap, easy, and good for the skin!

Milk?


Why I don’t let C drink cow milk. Oh, milk, you had me at cow pus…

I could keep posting link after link. No doubt, my pediatrician would roll her eyes at me, but I’m cynical enough — and paranoid enough — to believe that the dairy industry has bought off the entire American population, including the American Academy of Pediatrics. Don’t get me wrong, I love me a good slice of pizza as much as anyone else, and I can’t bring myself to ban all diary products from C’s diet (though I probably should, for intellectual consistency’s sake), but I draw the line when it comes to the liquid stuff. Soy’s hardly better, health-wise, so I stick to hazelnut milk (Pacific makes a DELICIOUS version), and at some point, I’m going take the initiative and make my own almond milk.

SuperBaby

While I've been more of a hands-on learner when it comes to this crazy job of parenting, a friend of mine bought this book for me as a gift, and I couldn't put it down. It's chock full of really useful information, and it has definitely changed the way I interact with my daughter. I'm not saying that all of the information is helpful or useful, and the author sometimes drives me mad with her overly optimistic assumptions of kids' attention spans and self-control (sorry, but I can't keep my kid entertained with pots and pans while I'm cooking -- a video will have to do), but, overall, I'd go so far as to suggest that this book is a must-read.